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LEARNING TO PRAY
Many people acknowledge the importance of prayer. Most also admit that they don't pray very often. Yet
prayer is one of the most basic elements of life in Christ.
A Christian cannot live (survive and grow) without prayer. Communication and fellowship with God is more important than any other "basic necessity" of life, for it has eternal consequences.
For a person who has died to himself and who is now alive in Christ, prayer, united with consistent, diligent Bible study, is the basis for all of life. Without these, he cannot know God's will; he cannot know how to live. He cannot know God. Who would ever think of neglecting his body to the extent that many who call themselves "Christians" neglect their souls? Let us encourage each other, and pray that we will not be found guilty of such a sin!!
The Bible says much about prayer, and a serious study of this topic will yield many discoveries. Some of the discoveries may be disturbing, if they point to a need for a major change in one's habits or life-style. Yet, the person who desires to be more like his "Father in heaven" will be thankful to discover how he needs to change, though it forces him to come face to face with his weaknesses and failings. He has no need to go on a "guilt trip." Instead of self-pity, he can give thanks for what God has already done in his life, and trust Him for what he will do in the future. He can look to God for the strength needed to improve in his prayer life, and thus strive to reach the final goal that the Bible has revealed for God's people.
Learning about prayer: What is prayer all about?
Here are some suggestions of possible topics or issues you could use in your own study of the concept of prayer. There is no need to do them all at once. You may also choose to simply read through the Bible (especially the New Testament, which has a lot to say on this topic), and see what you find.
Putting truth into practice: Pray!
It is our hope that these thoughts will encourage you to examine the concept of prayer, as it is portrayed in the Bible. But do not stop there!! Learning facts about prayer (though important) does not turn a person into a "prayer warrior." Learn to practice prayer! Make prayer an increasing part of your life!!
Do not for a moment expect praying to be easy. Expect to need plenty of "self denial," if you want to learn to pray. Don't be surprised if you frequently need to confess to God attitudes of disinterest, a wandering mind, or a desire to do anything except pray. Do you think that Satan is going to let you pray without a fight? (The same holds true when you try to study the Bible.)
You will be forced to make value judgments. There will be other things that scream out, "Urgent, urgent!!!" whereas prayer quietly whispers, "This is more important." Remember this: There are only 168 hours in a week - and you already have 10,000 hours worth of things you would like to accomplish. You cannot do everything. You will have to make choices; and your choices will be a reflection of your values. (If you have difficulty in the area of priorities, you might wish to study the life and teachings of Jesus, as recorded in the gospels.)
As you grow in your prayer life (and in your study of the Bible), you will see changes in your life. Such changes may be slow; you may at times experience "defeat." In fact, it may seem that you fail quite often. But you must learn to keep your eyes on the goal. When you "fall," you must get up again and continue to follow Christ. You must keep a focus on what he wants you to be, rather than on your failures.
As you grow in your prayer life, you will grow in your trust in God. You will learn how he works, as you experience it in your own life. You will see how he controls all the things in your life (both good and bad) so that, in the end (not always now), they will all accomplish good. (See Romans 8:28 and the verses surrounding it.) You will find it easier to recognize the display of his mighty power, making changes in you that you could never do on your own. You will learn to rely more and more on his promises, for you will see that he does not fail. You will increasingly view God as a Friend and Father, rather than an impersonal "Supreme Being" - as someone you know, rather than merely know about.
Yet it must be emphasized that it will not be without struggle. There will be "victories," but there will also be times of anguish. Learn this at the start, and you will not be as distressed and bewildered when it happens. God uses all these things to accomplish his goals in our lives, to develop within us the qualities of the godly life that he desires. And if we are his followers - children of "our Father in heaven" (Matthew 6:9) - isn't this what we sincerely desire?
Dennis Hinks © 1992, 2009